My first suggestion would be to come to our workshop this coming Tuesday, where you'll definitely be able to learn a bit about your camera & digital photography in general. It's at the AV Senior Center, 777 W. Jackman in Lancaster.
As for books, I haven't read many but find that the ones by Scott Kelby are pretty good. I have a couple from his "The Digital Photography Book" collection (there are 3 or 4 now, I think) and find them to be good.
The strap that I've used for some time now is the Op/Tech Pro strap. It comes in a couple of different attachment types. It's neoprene and really helps absorb the weight of the camera.



Aperture Priority vs. Shutter Priority?
But I "can" be taught! 


I just bought my first DSLR--a Canon T3i. I am looking for a book or video series that will teach me how to properly understand the various features on the camera. I have searched Amazon.com but there are so many out there, I don't know which is best. Suggestions?
Also, I have Photoshop CS4 and Corel Paint Shop Pro X4 Ultimate. I have them--but don't know what to do with them. Again, which books are best to learn?
My brother is a Canon fan, which is why I went that route--but he's a few hours away from here and not too accessible for a hands-on lesson.
Another quick question--the strap which was included with the camera leaves a lot to be desired for me. It's not comfortable at all, and cuts into my skin. Which ones do you find to be most comfortable? Again, I have looked at options, but can't tell from the internet search which are the best.
Thanks for your input--I appreciate the help.
Rachel